Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Wedding nightmares

It has happened, I have now experienced two wedding nightmares. This doesn't surprise me much because I can be a very anxious person and tend to have nightmares surrounding life changes like new schools, college, and new jobs. When I was a kid I would get so excited for my birthday or Christmas that I would break out in hives ... yeah, I know, I am a freak show. So this being a part of my history I knew that it was only a matter of time before I was going to be having wedding nightmares.

Dream #1:
After all of the wedding dress hunting that has been taking place, I was bound to have a dress dream. In the dream we get married and walk back down the aisle and for some reason the groom and groomsmen go one way and the bridesmaids and I go another way. Well my girls and I go around a building and we are faced by all of the guys with supersoakers full of red paint. They destroy us! It was all in good fun like little boys attack little girls with squirt guns on a playground. In no way was I subconsciously thinking of the guys as malicious ... just stupid boys. Naturally I woke up and told my Mr. who thought this was very funny and even told me that it was a great idea- he is very sarcastic, one of the many reasons we get along so well.



Dream #2:
So I was getting ready for the wedding at some weird hotel. I realized I had about 14 bridesmaids and I knew none of them. They also had bad attitudes and I had never picked out a dress for them to wear. So I just told them all to put on whatever dresses they had in their suitcases (don't know why they all had suitcases ...). Then I realized about a half hour before the ceremony that I had forgotten to schedule a hair and make-up person so my mom and I were trying to through my hair in a pony tail and do my own make-up. I was also crying like a whiny toiler. Then as I was getting ready to walk down the aisle I realized I had also never remembered to hire an officiant so we couldn't get married.


So while I may feel very calm about this wedding while awake. My subconscious/unconscious (depending on  what psychological or philosophical ideals you prescribe to) is very stressed out. Sorry sub/un- conscious!



What kind of crazy dreams have you experienced while wedding planning? Am I crazy?

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